[fix] unify heaps size programing

- share same code between csr and cmd container to get default heap size
- share handling of debug flag to change heap size
- share platform level surface heap size between csr and command list
- refactor heap size files
- put heap size constant and function into namespace
- command list surface heap size increased to 2MB for xehp+ to match csr
- command list increased surface heap size only for sba tracking
- sba tracking heap consumption increased due to different reset policy

Related-To: NEO-5055

Signed-off-by: Zbigniew Zdanowicz <zbigniew.zdanowicz@intel.com>

shared/source/command_container/command_encoder_xehp_and_later.inl

@@ -798,4 +798,10 @@ template <typename Family>
 size_t EncodeDispatchKernel<Family>::additionalSizeRequiredDsh(uint32_t iddCount) {
     return 0u;
 }
+
+template <typename Family>
+size_t EncodeStates<Family>::getSshHeapSize() {
+    return 2 * MB;
+}
+
 } // namespace NEO